Otto's vow: In todays world everything seems to be mostly about me. What do I stand to gain? You and I are coming together not because either one of us wanted it to happen. We both first suffered in our own pain. From that pain we relearned something we already knew, that life doesn't always go the way we want it to go. Yet out of that pain we somehow found each other. In the short time we have been together we have laughed again and we have cried again. Together we will continue to do both as our love for each other grows. I promise to you that for the time we have left my thoughts and my actions will always be toward you and toward us never just toward me alone. I love you and I promise I will love you for as long as I live so help me God.